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Solutions To Comfort Eating For Women (and Men too)

Comfort Eating For Women. Whether you grew up with a mom who gave you a cookie every time you got hurt, were rewarded with sweets when you performed well in school or finished your meal, or you developed a must-eat reflex out of loneliness, emotional eating is an automatic response to stress for many people. Emotional eating is like a knee-jerk reaction that has developed due to repetition. In other words, we’ve done it enough times to know it works quickly to calm and comfort ourselves. If this sounds like you, don’t feel bad. The majority of women (and men) have not been formally taught alternative ways to deal with feelings. There isn’t a class in elementary school or high school that lays out what you do when you are stressed. The result: learn as you go.

The media is partly to blame for emotional eating

The connection between food and comfort is made quickly and is hard to break once established, especially because the media promotes this kind of coping mechanism. How many times have you seen a woman eating ice cream on a sitcom or dramatic movie immediately post-breakup? Look closely at ads for chocolates and sweets. They sell the promise of emotional benefits, such as bliss, love, escape and feeling good. This media slant gives us the subtle perception that it is OK and ‘normal’ to comfort yourself with calories.

We are wired to eat when stressed

Before you beat yourself up or get mad at your mom for trying to make everything all better with food, consider your body’s biological response to stress. Eating in response to emotion is a natural, hard-wired response that we all have, and so many of my clients arrive at the starting gate with this as one of the causes of their poor eating, body image and overweight challenges. We can thank the stress hormone cortisol for igniting cravings for sugary, fatty foods during moments of stress.

However, while emotional eating is a “natural response,” and doesn’t mean that eating is the only way to get your cortisol levels in check. Activities like relaxation, sleep, drinking hot tea and other non-food activities to help to rebalance your cortisol levels. “I liked the classic slogan, ‘Calgon, take me away’ [referring to the bubble bath commercial] because it is a perfect and rare example of an ad that actually taught women an alternative, healthy way to cope with stress. Comfort Eating For Women

Eating feels so good, so what’s the big deal?

Right now you may be thinking there is no way that anything could be more comforting than a giant warm cinnamon roll oozing with icing or a heaping plate of pasta carbonara. Food is only a short-term solution to stress and can even be a factor in more stress in the long term. 

Immediately food ‘works’ to comfort and soothe yourself — we wouldn’t do it if it didn’t give us benefits, right? But without another alternative, non-food coping mechanism, emotional eating can lead to excess weight gain.  Some experts indicate that emotional eating is linked to 75 percent of overeating. 

So, for many women, just finding a way to cope with emotional eating will make a huge difference to their waistlines and health.

The benefits of non-food coping mechanisms

Food is readily accessible and seems to be the easiest (and most delicious) way to escape from stress but it isn’t good for your emotional or physical health. Learn calorie-free skills to cope with feelings as a way to dramatically improve your health and weight as well as give you life-long, guilt-free coping skills. It can help you take charge of your emotions, which in turn, makes you feel confident and happier. Let’s face it, women have stressful lives and need healthy ways to cope all day long.

Taking a break with a cup of black tea, which has zero calories, can reduce your cortisol levels by 47 percent, according to a study in the Journal of Psychopharmacology. 


Give yourself a massage

Do you notice how you automatically start rubbing your temples when tension starts to rise? We naturally do self-massage, and intentionally and purposefully massaging tight spots can release feel-good chemicals in your body. Place a tennis ball under your foot and rub around. Or place the ball behind your shoulder blades and stand against the wall. It’s an instant, cheap massage that can be done right at your desk or in the kitchen.


Have a cup of tea

Taking a break with a cup of black tea, which has zero calories, can reduce your cortisol levels by 47 percent, according to a study in the Journal of Psychopharmacology. Albers recommends The Republic of Tea chocolate teas for a stress-free sweet fix.3


Get some sleep

Sleep is critical to putting an end to emotional eating. When you miss even a few hours of sleep, your appetite hormones are thrown off. Six to nine hours is optimal. Just as you schedule appointments and other events, be sure to schedule adequate sleep.


Chew gum

Keep a pack of sugarless gum in your purse and use it often. Not only is it good for your teeth, it can help you halt emotional eating. A recent study in the journal Appetite indicates that chewing gum 15 minutes before you eat can significantly reduce your appetite and curb cravings. Brain scans show that it moves your brain into a ‘relaxed but alert’ state. Thus, it’s great when you get the urge to boredom-eat.


Get Moving

Breaking the emotional eating habit can be the hardest part of putting an end to it. Replace your response to eat when stressed with a response to exercise. Instead of reaching for a candy bar, lace up your shoes and go for a walk or do any other physical activity you enjoy. This may be especially helpful if your comfort food of choice is chocolate or other high-calorie snacks. According to a study in the journal Appetite, taking a brisk walk for 20 minutes can help you curb chocolate cravings. Swapping out emotional eating with exercise also means you’ll boost your fitness level. Love the 17 Minute Fitness Club! (Of course, right??!!) You’ll find just doing 1 set (4 minutes) can even help break your pattern. Try it. Comfort Eating For Women


Try chew sticks

No, not the Greenies from your pet, but chew sticks for humans. They look like toothpicks but are flavored and they can be purchased at natural health foods stores or online. They help people lose weight and stop smoking. They allow you to crunch and chew without any calories. Straws can also help to alleviate oral fixations.


Change your eating behavior with worry beads

Worry beads have a long history of helping people cope with addictive behaviors, which can help you break the habit of reaching for food whenever you feel angst-ridden. Keep worry beads in your hand and use them to work off nervous energy, instead of wrapping your fingers around the first indulgent food you can find.


Rely on purposeful distraction

Are you a multitasker who not only emotionally eats but also does it while watching television, texting, talking on the phone or perusing Pinterest? Distracted eating is a recipe for overeating but that distracting yourself from eating can curb your comfort-food cravings. Engaging your mind in an activity that stimulates your brain but isn’t too taxing, like simple word puzzles, knitting and other rhythmic activities, can soothe and calm you.


Relax like a rag doll

To calm down your body, you can do a very simple relaxation exercise: Drop down your muscles as if you were a rag doll. Tense up your body and then assume the [rag-doll] position again. The contrast between tightening and relaxing can help unlock anxiety.


Breathe deep

Calming your physiological responses is key to reducing cortisol naturally. Imagine blowing through a straw as you exhale. Count to 10 on the slow, deep, in-breaths. Slowing down your breathing tricks your body into believing that it is going into sleep mode, thus signaling the rest of your body to just relax.

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